October 20, 2017
In This Issue Principal's Message Presidents' Message Fundraising Calendar at a Glance Parents' Club EFO College and Career Boosters Class News Community News Quick Links eNewsDear Miramonte Community,Last Friday I left for a conference in Detroit on Courageous Conversation. This conference was attended by a group of teachers, administrators, and counselors from our four comprehensive high schools, Miramonte, Campolindo, Acalanes, and Las Lomas as part of our District initiative around equity in our schools. Over five days, we participated in intensive work around equity, spending full days reflecting on our communities, our students, and, most importantly, ourselves. It was powerful and inspirational work that I am looking forward to bringing to our school site through our collaboration with students on the EquiTeam and leadership, our work with teachers during professional development, and our reflection on our school systems and structures. Bringing an equity lens to each and every topic is crucial to best serving all our students.One take away from this conference was a set of Four Agreements that can be used to have courageous conversation. Since parents and educators alike find need to discuss challenging topics, I thought I would pass these along to the community. Perhaps you will find them useful in talking to your students about things that are difficult and contentious.1. Stay Engaged - This means listening intently to the other person. Really hearing and engaging in mindful inquiry where you give a person space and time in a conversation just to speak and be heard. This means listening without the intentions of responding, but rather to truly hear and seek clarity in understanding the other person's perspective.2. Experience Discomfort - Talking about things courageously means that things get uncomfortable. Let yourself be in that space. Rather than trying to solve the problem immediately, push through the discomfort and accept it as part of the process.3. Speak Your Truth - This one is my favorite. It, of course, means to be honest and truthful about your feelings. But, it also means that you must keep your comments personal and local. Avoid generalizing your feelings and speaking for other people. Speak only what is true to you.4. Except/Accept Non-Closure - Courageous conversation can be a process. One conversation might not solve a big problem. It is unsettling to move forward without a solution, but this is to be expected when we discuss complex topics.I hope you find these helpful; I know that I am finding many uses for these norms in both my professional and personal lives!Sincerely,Presidents' MessageDear Miramonte Families,RESCHEDULED: the Fall Food Truck Festival is now happening on Friday, October 27, at 6:00 p.m. Don't forget to buy your tickets on the Web Store for our only all-Miramonte event.We had another great turnout for the Parents' Club meeting this past Wednesday. We took a tour of the brand new Peer Tutoring Center above the art room (see photo below). What a gem! Please let your student know this option is available to them during Academy period (drop in or appointment). The tutors service all subjects, from science and math to English, world history and languages. Students can read the resumes of the 100+ tutors available to find the best fit.Finally, we wish all of our students a happy and safe homecoming weekend! Go Mats!Best,Fundraising"FREE MONEY"... for Miramonte Parents' Club. Did you know that matching funds from your employer is a great way to boost your donation to the Parents' Club?
Calendar at a GlanceOCTOBER
- Many companies have a matching program. Please take time to inquire with your company.
- The match request must be initiated by the employee (you) by filling out a form and submitting it to your company or to the Parents' Club.
- Some companies cap their matching dollars and give on a first-come, first-served basis so please get your forms submitted early to ensure your matching goes through.
- If you have any questions, please contact Carrie Hillen or Lisa LaVelle.
21 Homecoming Dance, 7:00-9:00 p.m.; MHS Gym 23 Parent Ed: Difficult Conversations with Teens, 7:00-8:30 p.m.; Library 25 Parent Ed: Teen Stress, 7:00-8:30 p.m.; AHS Performing Arts Center 27 Deadline to drop a class 27Food Truck Festival, 6:00-9:00 p.m.; Orinda Library Plaza 30 Winter Sports Parent Info Night, 5:30-7:30 p.m.; Cafeteria NOVEMBER 1, 2 & 3 Fall Play, Secret in the Wings, 7:00-9:00 p.m.; MHS Theater 4 Freshman Parent Social, 3:00-5:30 p.m.; Captain Vineyards 6 Boosters Club meeting, 6:00-7:00 p.m.; Library10 No School, Veterans Day13 Mindfulness Meet Up, 7:00-8:30 p.m.; Library 15 Parents' Club meeting, 9:30-11:00 a.m.; Room 221 20-24 Thanksgiving BreakParents' Club
New Date for the Food Truck Festival!Please join us for the annual Food Truck Festival for all Miramonte parents! Come on down and enjoy a great evening of music, food, and fun with our wonderful Miramonte community on Friday, October 27, 6:00-9:00 p.m. at the Orinda Library Plaza.Tickets are $60 in advance on the Web Store or $70 at the door (cash or check only).________________________________Parent EducationWondering how to bring up challenging topics with your teen? Or trying to maintain a relationship with your teen after a tough conversation? Please join us for a presentation on "Navigating Difficult Conversations with Teens". Jamie Anderson, MFT, will speak on communication strategies that build a connection with our teens on Monday, October 23, 7:00-8:30 p.m. in the MHS Library. Please RSVP to this free event here.EFOPlease remember to donate to EFO if you haven't already done so this year.
EFO is committed to providing $535,000 to Miramonte student programs this year. It takes financial support from both EFO and the Parents' Club to fully fund each child at Miramonte. Please donate to both this year.
Thank you to our wonderful volunteer callers at the phonathon earlier this week: Nan Reed, David Alvarado, Dan Weiner, and Marc Patten. Your time and enthusiasm were much appreciated!
For more information about EFO and how to donate, please visit EFO's website.College and CareerImportant DatesOctober 26 - CSS Profile Presentation, 6:30 p.m.; MHS LibraryNovember 1 & 15 - Early/Priority due date for applications at many schoolsNovember 2 - A representative from the Navy will be in the College and Career Center at lunchNovember 30 - Due date for UC & CSU Application________________________________Next Week's WorkshopsOctober 25 & 27 - Common Application HelpStudents can sign up for these workshops using the TeachMore site or the App.________________________________Colleges Visiting MiramonteMiramonte has over 110 College Reps (and more added every day!) coming this fall to talk with students. Not only do students get to learn more about the colleges, but they also gain insight on the application process. To sign up for a time to meet with one of the visiting schools, students should log on to Naviance and check the 'upcoming college visits' section to view all the colleges attending this fall.CollegeDateTimeDrexel UniversityMonday, 10/238:35 a.m.The College of Saint RoseMonday, 10/239:25 a.m.Kenyon CollegeMonday, 10/231:30 p.m.Western Oregon UniversityMonday, 10/232:20 p.m.Rhodes CollegeTuesday, 10/248:00 a.m.University of Minnesota, Twin CitiesTuesday, 10/249:00 a.m.University of Hawaii at ManoaTuesday, 10/249:40 a.m.University of San DiegoTuesday, 10/2410:30 a.m.Willamette UniversityTuesday, 10/2411:25 a.m.Portland State UniversityTuesday, 10/2412:25 p.m.The University of ArizonaTuesday, 10/241:35 p.m.The University of OklahomaTuesday, 10/243:05 p.m.Wake Forest UniversityWednesday, 10/258:35 a.m.University of PortlandWednesday, 10/259:35 a.m.Saint Michael's CollegeWednesday, 10/2511:25 a.m.University of California, BerkeleyWednesday, 10/2512:25 p.m.Boise State UniversityWednesday, 10/251:35 p.m.Columbia College ChicagoWednesday, 10/252:35 p.m.Rutgers University-New BrunswickWednesday, 10/253:05 p.m.University of California, Santa BarbaraThursday, 10/268:00 a.m.The University of IowaThursday, 10/2611:25 a.m.University of RedlandsThursday, 10/2612:25 p.m.University of DelawareThursday, 10/262:35 p.m.Bryant UniversityFriday, 10/278:35 a.m.Pomona CollegeFriday, 10/2712:25 p.m.Lewis & Clark CollegeFriday, 10/272:35 p.m.________________________________Internship OpportunityInternship with National Park Service at the John Muir National Historic Site in Martinez. They are looking for a handful of interns to assist with an ongoing national phenology project that will consist of tracking seasonal changes in plants to measure climate change in real-time. Applications are due Friday, October 27 by 5:00 p.m. If interested, see Ms. Stuber for the application.BoostersThanks to your Miramonte Boosters donations, lacrosse balls are confined to the playing field allowing a safer environment for all athletes. The thought of an errant lacrosse ball whizzing by a fan's head is no longer a concern.Last June, Boosters spent nearly $8,000 to purchase the two end zone boundary nets for the lacrosse teams. These nets would not be possible without the tremendous support of our parents. Please click here to join Boosters today and support our efforts for 100% parent participation.Company matching opportunity? Booster members have added over $1,000 in company matching donations this year! Please consider your employer match when signing up. Our 501(c)(3) number is 94-2768877.Class NewsJoin the fun at our first parent social! Come meet other freshman parents or re-connect with the ones you already know. Enjoy a private wine tasting by Captain Vineyards, a family-owned and operated business right here in our backyard of Moraga. This event will be held on Saturday, November 4, 3:00-5:30 p.m. Tickets can be purchased now on the Web Store. More information can be found here. Please join us and support the Class of 2021!Community NewsTeen Stress and Student Performance: Dr. Ben Bernstein, Ph.D.Parents are invited to a free, informative talk sponsored by the Acalanes Parents' Club. Dr. Ben Bernstein is a psychologist and educator specializing in how stress, including test anxiety, affects performance. Bernstein has authored several books on stress and student performance. This event will be held on October 25, 7:00-8:30 p.m in the Acalanes High School Performing Arts Center. Please register here. If you have any questions, please contact Holly Nolan.Quick LinkseNews at MiramonteMiramonte High School Parents' Club publishes Matador News as a communications service to the Miramonte community each Friday. We welcome your ideas for articles of interest to parents, teachers, and staff. If you have an article to contribute to the Matador News, please email it to both:
The firm deadline for submissions is Wednesday at noon for Friday publication. Please follow submission guidelines for Matador News.
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